How Should Education be given?

Family is very important for us. We get our first education from family. That’s why, if parents give the wrong education from the very first time will affect badly to their children. The wrong education will make a child do something wrong continuously. It isn’t easy to change the bad habit because it already set in our unconscious mind.
In many countries we are facing a lot of divorces, broken home, violence, etc. This condition has an extremely effect for children. There is a joke: In ancient times, a family has a lot of children. Nowadays, children have a lot of parents (many fathers and mothers). This condition can change children’s personality. Maybe this child can’t believe in love anymore. The worst thing, he can’t believe in God anymore. He might have this kind of think: No body cares about me, all my family just know their business. God leaves me. I’m alone. PLEASE give ME more attention! (But his family never realized his condition. This child was so pity and he needs someone always beside him to courage him and to lead him into the right way).
Family should give a balance education between physically and spiritually. Parents must build a good personality to their children. They should make children love God, their family, their surroundings, their lessons, etc (any positive things). Both educations are very important to give in balance. One isn’t complete without another one.
Some parents are too protective to their children. All activities arrange by parents, children just do it. This is not good for them. It will make children can’t speak up their idea. It will make children depend on their parents and they don’t have their own mind. Parents should think: How can my children continue their life without me?
Parents should lead their children to the right way and help them if they can’t solve their serious problem by themselves. NOT always dictate them to do something.
Our second education is from school/college. Parents should choose a good school for their children because children will learn a social life (interaction with friends, teachers, and others) and do almost 60% of their activities at school. Some parents never care their children’s social life at school. They just care about children’s marks at school. They asked children to study hard and be the best. Some children can accept their parent’s will. But not a few that can accept it. It will make children stress, depression, and introvert. This kind of child needs a lot of attention (from parents, teachers, or friends). Some children might have problems with their social life. For example: he doesn’t have so many friends, he hates one of their teacher or friend, etc. This child needs an extra care.
In Indonesia, there are still so many kids who can’t receive a good education. There are so many factors: they don’t have enough money to pay school fee, parents thought that girl no need to go to the school, schools are too far from their home, etc.
Peoples must realize that our nation’s future depends on “Young Generation”. Anyone who has money should give a contribution to increase education. Anyone who is still productive should help to build our nation. Young generation should gain the highest education and eager to learn something new.
After we get enough education, we enter a new world. We have to work and start a social life. We are still has to learn a lot of things. Education is never STOP! We have to study as long as we can.